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		<title>Who&#8217;s using social media and are you too shy to share?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darika</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When i lived in Italy I visited the Benedictine monastery in Subiaco. It's built around a cave where St Benedict supposedly lived in solitude for three years with a shepherd or monk (I've heard both versions) lowering a basket of food down at intervals. The cave is surprisingly peacefully and, depending on your temperament, kind of appealing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft" style="float:left;" src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/37/120255368_cb03a6011d.jpg?v=0" alt="Saint Benedict" width="200" height="250" />When i lived in Italy I visited the Benedictine monastery in <a href="http://www.subi.org/abbey.htm">Subiaco</a>. It&#8217;s built around a cave where <a href="http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/02467b.htm">St Benedict</a> supposedly lived in solitude for three years fed by a shepherd or monk (I&#8217;ve heard both versions) who lowered a basket of food down at intervals. The cave is surprisingly peacefully and, depending on your temperament, kind of appealing.</p>
<p>My positive response to the environment demonstrated that people feel different degrees of being intro-  or extroverted and it&#8217;s something that crops up in questions when I run social media training sessions: who are &#8216;these people&#8217; ie bloggers, tweeters, social networkers et al and why do *they* feel so comfortable broadcasting their lives?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure I know the answer. At a basic level, once you and your friends start using something like Facebook it becomes more standardised and natural, you find yourself adding more personal updates, posting photos etc.</p>
<p>But honestly I still feel a bit like a social media &#8220;observer&#8221; using tools like <a href="http://grapevineconsulting.wordpress.com/">this blog</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/darika">Twitter</a> to engage with my community from professional more than personal desires. As a pretty private person being publicly online makes me feel exposed and I contemplate deleting my accounts to run away to my Benedict&#8217;s cave. (Although I wonder if after 30 mins there I&#8217;d discover a compulsion to tweet &#8220;sitting in cave waiting for @Romanus to stop by with the food basket&#8221;).</p>
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<p>I suspect that your level of comfort with publicly sharing is based on your confidence to allow people to make judgements about you. After all people can be nasty (See: <a href="http://grapevineconsulting.wordpress.com/2008/03/05/maxs-travel-blog-the-guardian-crisis-comms/">Max&#8217;s Guardian blog</a> or when <a href="http://www.shinyshiny.tv/2008/04/wednesday_or_th.html">Katie took on Fark</a>)</p>
<p>There must be social anthropologists studying and categorising social media engagement types. But it&#8217;s intrinsic for humans to share at some level whether it&#8217;s online via blogging etc or offline via updating the people in your office with details of your love life. Only the mediums have diverged.</p>
<p>1000s of years ago when humans were creating cave drawings I wonder if they ever imagined their works would be seen outside of their small tribes.</p>
<p>How do you feel? Are you too shy to share?</p>
<p><img src="http://www.brandon-hall.com/richardnantel/wp-content/uploads/2007/10/cavedrawing.jpg" alt="" width="425" height="194" /></p>
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